情景重現(xiàn) You may have come across a guy that fancies you and wants to go out with you.But if you don’t, and he’s being persistent（堅(jiān)持的）, then you’ve got a bit of an issue on your hands. 你或許遇到一個(gè)男生，他很傾慕你。她想和你約會(huì)。但如果你不想，而他又很堅(jiān)持，那邊你就會(huì)有點(diǎn)小麻煩。 Not all guys are bad. You have to understand that a guy may be persistent only because he likes you a lot. In some cases, the guy may be genuinely（真誠地） nice and may only want you to get to know him better. 不是所有的男生都是壞男生。你得懂一個(gè)男生那么堅(jiān)持是因?yàn)樗浅Ｏ矚g你。有時(shí)候，這個(gè)男生或許是真誠地對(duì)你好，或者只想讓你更多地了解他。 And in some other cases, he may assume you’re playing hard to get and may pursue you with renewed vigor（重新燃起的熱情）. 但另外的時(shí)候，他可能會(huì)認(rèn)為你是裝出矜持之態(tài)，于是呢又會(huì)重新燃起追求你的熱情。 come across遇到，遇見 fancy: be sexually attracted to someone傾慕，愛慕 assume：假定，假設(shè) play hard to get：（尤指戀愛之初）故作冷淡；裝出矜持之態(tài) 最重要的原則 be honest and direct.坦誠，直接點(diǎn)。 說什么 I had a lot of fun on our date but I don’t feel that chemistry（眼緣） with you. 和你出去挺開心，但是我覺得我們沒有眼緣。 You seem like a great guy but I’m just not interested in you like that. 你倒是挺好的，但是呢，我對(duì)你沒有那么大的興趣。 Thank you for the wonderful evening! I’m sorry but I don’t see us as compatible（兼容的，協(xié)調(diào)的）. Good luck with your future dates. 謝謝帶我度過了一個(gè)美好的晚上，但是，很不好意思，我覺得我們不太搭。祝你將來的約會(huì)好運(yùn)。 各位小伙伴可以在下方留下你被搭訕和追求的那些事~