我們以為一個(gè)眼神 一句話 一次意見(jiàn)不合 就可以決定一段關(guān)系的成敗 你若盛開(kāi)，真愛(ài)自來(lái), 英語(yǔ)美文朗讀 , 3分鐘 中英文稿、剪輯、主播：孟飛Phoenix ▽ In this whirlwindof modern life, love has turned into a transientbreeze. A mere glance at a photo, a brief chat on WeChat, and we are under the spell of infatuation. 在這個(gè)快節(jié)奏的世界里，愛(ài)情成了一種轉(zhuǎn)瞬即逝的風(fēng)?？匆谎壅掌膸拙湮⑿?，就覺(jué)得心被俘獲。 We are quick to judge the fate of a relationship by a single look, a casual remark, or a minor disagreement. Yet, the essence of true love is not a fleeting spark but a fire that burns steadily. It's the enduringsupport and companionship that we witness in the tender moments shared by an elderly couple at sunset. Love, at its core, is a journey of togetherness. As someone once wisely said, love exists in three tiers: the fundamental level of physical attraction, the security provided by material comforts like bread and shelter, and the pinnacleof love, the soulmate, where acceptance and companionship reignsupreme. 我們以為一個(gè)眼神，一句話，一次意見(jiàn)不合就可以決定一段關(guān)系的成敗。但真正的愛(ài)情，不是瞬間的火花，而是持久的火焰。所以，我們大部分人都會(huì)羨慕余暉下攜手?jǐn)v扶的老兩口，因?yàn)閻?ài)是長(zhǎng)久的陪伴，曾經(jīng)有人說(shuō)過(guò)，愛(ài)有三個(gè)等級(jí)，最基礎(chǔ)的是生理的喜歡，第二等級(jí)是面包和房子這樣的物質(zhì)安全感，而最高級(jí)的愛(ài)情一定是我們口中和心中所謂的靈魂伴侶，因?yàn)榘?、陪伴才是最長(zhǎng)久的愛(ài)。 In one of mypast recordings, Ishared a point: never shop for groceries on an empty stomach, for hunger can cloud your judgment and lead you to purchase unnecessary items. In the same vein, avoid rushing into relationships out of loneliness, for it can deceive you into mistaking anything for love. 孟叔之前的節(jié)目里曾經(jīng)分享過(guò)那段話；不要在饑餓的時(shí)候逛超市，因?yàn)轲囸I感往往會(huì)左右你的選擇，讓你買(mǎi)到很多并不需要的東西，同樣也不要在孤獨(dú)寂寞的時(shí)候，貿(mào)貿(mào)然開(kāi)始一段感情，因?yàn)楣陋?dú)寂寞也會(huì)蒙蔽你的雙眼，讓你誤以為看什么都像是愛(ài)情。 So let us slow our pace and seek with patience. Remember, true love is a luxury, not a common possession. It is when you are contentwith life without love that you are truly prepared to embrace it. 所以讓我們放慢腳步，慢慢尋找。請(qǐng)記得，好的愛(ài)情本身就是奢侈品，并不是每個(gè)人都會(huì)擁有，當(dāng)你覺(jué)得自己不需要愛(ài)情也可以生活的很好的時(shí)候，才是你可以真正擁有愛(ài)情的時(shí)候。 文本、錄音、圖片、剪輯、主播：孟飛Phoenix BGM：Reve - ??????