What is Love? The eternal question we all carry around deep within our heart. Love is the eternal search. Love is eternal when we find it. But do we really ever find it ? When we define it do we negate it? When we set limits on what we believe to be love do we begin to destroy it by hoping to understand or own it for ourselves? We offer it through all of our relationship we vary our giving, often by what we hope to receive in return. But is this really love? 愛是什么？這是所有人心底一個永恒的問題。愛，是永恒的尋覓。愛一旦被找到，它也將變?yōu)橛篮?。但是我們真的找到過愛嗎？當(dāng)我們定義愛的同時，是否也在否定愛呢？在給我們所認為的愛加種種限制的同時，我們試圖按自己的方式理解它，或想將其據(jù)為己有時，我們是否也在破壞它呢？我們將愛施與周圍的所有人，而如何給予是由期望的回報來決定的。但這是真正的愛 Love has been experienced as having a life of living poetry. Love has been experienced as being the very notes of song, uplifting and generous to the wanting ear. Love has been experienced as the final act of giving one’s life for another in battle. Love has been experienced as choosing to give new life to another. Love has been experienced as an endless passionate over flow of emotion in the arms of waiting lover. 愛的經(jīng)歷就像一首鮮活靈動的詩；愛的經(jīng)歷就像一個個美妙動聽的音符，讓企盼的雙耳得到振奮、滿足；愛的經(jīng)歷就像戰(zhàn)場上舍己救人的一幕；愛的經(jīng)歷就像賦予人新生的選擇；愛的經(jīng)歷就像依偎在期盼已久的愛人臂彎時所流露出的無盡愛意。 No one else, no matter how much we talk or cry, can pull us through the anxious hours of soul repair and growth. It is our own fire within that needs rekindling, guarding against the winds that would blow it out and leave us dark, cold and helpless. It is at this time that we find the lobe that binds us together with every other being that surrounds us on the planet. Eventually we find the sun still rises to meet in the morning and the stars continue to show us the way each night. The rivers still flow downstream into oceans that will never turn them away. The trees still reach upward every day praising the God that made them. We stand up straight and take a lesson from it all. 無論我們說了多少話，流了多少淚，無人能幫助我們過心靈修復(fù)的陰霾與成長過程中的綿綿陰雨。我們的心靈為火需要再燃，需要呵護，不致讓風(fēng)將其吹滅，不致讓自己被黑暗、陰冷和無助所包圍。此時，我們便找到把我們與周圍的每一個生命維系在一起的那份愛。我們終會發(fā)現(xiàn)，太陽依然長期升起，來迎接黎明的到來；星光依然閃爍，來指引我們夜行的方向；江河依然流向下游，歸入廣納百川的大海；樹木依然日日向上生長，歌頌賦予其生命的上蒼。我們挺直身軀，從這一切中汲取教訓(xùn)。 Love doesn’t ask why. It doesn’t come. It doesn’t go. It just is. It is not only in our hands, it is our hands. It isn’t only in our heart, it is what makes our heart beat every beat. It wraps itself around us so securely that all we need to do to survive against all odds is to recognize it as the very breath we just drew, and the last breath we just let go. 愛不問理由。它不會走近你，也不會遠離你。愛始終存在著。它就是我們的手中，在我們的心里，確切地說就是我們的雙手，就是我們每一次心跳的動力。愛將我們安全地包圍著，我們把它當(dāng)成每一次真切的呼吸，時刻與愛同在，是我們克服一切困難有秘訣。 Lost, empty, alone and searching. As individuals who have experienced separation or divorce, or even the loss of a loved one to death, the separation can be the most traumatic experience we live through. The heart-wrenching pain that seems to never really go away, the enormous waves that hit us daily, the times we hit the wall right after a strong and uplifting experience reminds us that we are learning. We are learning about strength, passion for our own life, about our own sincerity in our beliefs, about our loyalty to who we are, and certainly about our own genuineness. We search for that day when love will come again. We search everywhere, everyday, almost every hour. 迷茫、空虛、孤獨、尋覓。對于那些經(jīng)歷過分別、離異，甚至失去過愛人的人來說，這樣的離別乃是生命中最大的傷痕。揪心的傷痛永無此境；生活中的挫折和磨難無時無刻不在提醒我們：我們正處于認知的過程中。我們正在認識自己生命的力量和激情，認識對信仰的虔誠，認識對自的忠貞，認識自己的本性。我們期待真愛重回的那一天，我們每時每刻都在每個角落尋覓。