婚姻? 作者：紀(jì)伯倫? 你們的結(jié)合要保留空隙，? 讓天堂的風(fēng)在你們中間舞動。? 彼此相愛，但不要制造愛的枷鎖，? 在你們靈魂的兩岸之間，讓愛成為涌動的海洋。? 倒?jié)M彼此的酒杯，但不要只從一個杯子啜飲，? 分享你們的面包，但不可只把同一塊面包享用。? 一起歡笑，載歌載舞，? 但容許對方的獨(dú)處，? 就像琵琶的弦，? 雖然在同一首音樂中顫動，? 然而你是你，我是我，彼此獨(dú)立。? 交出你的心靈，但不是由對方保管，? 因?yàn)槲┯猩郑拍苋菁{你的心靈。? 站在一起，卻不可太過接近，? 君不見，寺廟的梁柱各自聳立，? 橡樹和松柏，也不在彼此的陰影中成長。? ? Marriage? Kahlil Gibran? You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.? You shall be together when white wings of death scatter your days.? Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.? But let there be spaces in your togetherness,? And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.? Love one another but make not a bond of love:? Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.? Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.? Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.? Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,? Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music .? Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.? For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.? And stand together, yet not too near together:? For the pillars of the temple stand apart,? And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.?