情生惑，惑成書 版塊介紹 這個板塊的文章來自the Boston Globe的專欄記者Meredith Goldstein運營的網(wǎng)站loveletters.boston.com。網(wǎng)站上的文章都是讀者給Meredith發(fā)來的信件，詢問一些我們平時都可能遇到的情感問題，網(wǎng)友會在上面評論留言，Meredith也會給出自己的建議，給許多困惑中的讀者帶來幫助。 在我看來，這些文章都是相當棒的英語閱讀材料，文字淺顯易懂又貼近生活，也會有許多地道的用語表達，同時也提供了很好的討論的素材。我會將文字貼出，朗讀，并且稍作解釋，大家看完之后，也歡迎給我留言。 本期問題：He can't help looking at other women... 如果你是第一次看到我的推送或者錯過了之前的問題，可以點擊： 情·書 - 第6期 他總是盯著別的女生看... It's not the worst thing to notice attractive people (within reason). Some people do have that instinct. It doesn't mean that they don't appreciate and desire the person right in front of them. It doesn't mean that they long for someone else. Your boyfriend's behavior is bothering you, I would guess, because your relationship is lacking in other ways. You're looking for answers, which is why every little thing he does – and looks at – means more than it should. You say, "I feel like I've spent all this time trying to uncover another side of him, but I can't get to it." That's the real problem. You didn't write anything about what you love about this man, or why the relationship was great before the drift. It's time to think about that, and whether you're still enjoying the things that brought you together in the first place. If most of your relationship is spent wishing for more, it might be time to do some looking of your own. - Meredith Readers? What about the looking? 致敬作者 原文地址： https://loveletters.boston.com/2017/03/cant-help-looking-women.html 這個問題，你怎么看 敬請留言 看完讀者的問題和Meredith回答，不知道您是否愿意分享自己的想法。你會怎么解決困境，又會有怎樣的建議呢？希望您可以直接在留言板留言，也可以掃描二維碼加入我的小小的粉絲群，用語音和其他粉絲一起交流，英語或者中文都可以。表達也是一種練習哦~ 歡迎關注我的微信公眾賬號“葉希聰”