情生惑，惑成書 授權(quán)聲明 這個(gè)板塊的文章來自the Boston Globe的專欄記者M(jìn)eredith Goldstein運(yùn)營(yíng)的網(wǎng)站loveletters.boston.com。網(wǎng)站上的文章都是讀者給Meredith發(fā)來的信件，詢問一些我們平時(shí)都可能遇到的情感問題，網(wǎng)友會(huì)在上面評(píng)論留言，Meredith也會(huì)給出自己的建議，給許多困惑中的讀者帶來幫助。之前我冒昧得與Meredith通信，有幸獲得了她的授權(quán)，讓我作為一名搬運(yùn)工，把內(nèi)容分享給我的粉絲們，希望能給大家?guī)碛⒄Z(yǔ)學(xué)習(xí)上的幫助~。 點(diǎn)擊語(yǔ)音條可以收聽我對(duì)信件的朗讀，點(diǎn)擊閱讀原文可以收聽中文的講解， 本期問題：I kissed the married man at work... 如果你是第一次看到我的推送或者錯(cuò)過了之前的問題，可以點(diǎn)擊： 情·書 第10期 她的職業(yè)目標(biāo)，令人失望... 下方的語(yǔ)音條是對(duì)回信的朗讀，點(diǎn)擊“閱讀原文”可以收聽全文講解。 中間六邊形分割線 ? 點(diǎn)擊收聽 ? You&`&re expecting criticism from the comments section today ... and you&`&ll probably get a lot of it. Your letter suggests that you want your girlfriend to be a perfect, evolved partner right now. You want her to be a finished product at 26. That&`&s a big ask – especially when you know the exact reason she&`&s on a specific path: "Like so many people in our generation, she has to stay at a job that pays decently well to pay off her student loans, rather than a job that&`&s more in line with her social justice orientation." Your girlfriend might want some stability and money right now, but that doesn&`&t mean she won&`&t seek change or take some risks with her career. She might decide she wants a day job that allows her to volunteer. There are so many ways to be a person who cares about the world. Give her time to get there. Also know that your own path might change. The point is to experience this growth together. If you have reason to believe that your girlfriend is unhappy, you can talk about that. Just remember that the conversation will be about her, not you. Also know that she might be getting a lot out of this job. All work is an education. Do not belittle what she does or assume it isn&`&t important. You say you&`&re teaching kids how to develop empathy. You could use some more of that right now. Consider what you need from her and why, and remember that she&`&s a lot more than a résumé. – Meredith Readers? Thoughts on the girlfriend&`&s career path?